15 minutes later her Facebook status clicks over to in a relationship. Obviously she had gone to the resort with some other guy. Today she texted me saying that another guy had asked her to be his girlfriend and she said yes. She also said that she hoped we could still be friends.
Maybe what she did was misleading at some points, no doubt. I guess all I can say is that sometimes people just suck. The kicker is the new guy didn’t show up till last week, and suddenly after a whirlwind of romance those very valid, still very present, personal issues are no longer an obstacle to a relationship. Never ever be hopeful with someone that isn’t “sure” about a relationship.
If your plan to getting your girlfriend back is to wait for her to get tired of her new guy and come back to you, you’re likely in for a big shock. So, regardless of how curious you feel about your girlfriend’s new guy, asking her a bunch of questions about him is not a good idea. Yet, even though his questions might simply stem from curiosity, in a woman’s eyes it will likely look as though he’s feeling insecure about himself and in his attractiveness as a man. Sometimes, a guy might try to understand why his girl left him for the other guy, by asking questions about her new man.
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Sometimes, the signs are not even hard to see if you pay attention. If you only get to hang with your man at a time and place he chooses, there is one. Yes, he may have a tight schedule, but if he disregards every idea you bring up because of that, he either doesn’t rate you or is seeing someone else.
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Maybe you have a guy friend, and you have wondered if he wants to take your relationship from friendship to a romance. I know that you’re feeling disappointed and upset, but there’s really not much you can do to change the final outcome. He already has someone else and it won’t help a thing to fight for his attention. But once you see that he’s not doing anything to prove to you his feelings are real, that’s when you know it’s time for you to stop waiting for him.
If you’re married too, that’s a plus; if you’re successful, that’s a plus. Anything that makes him think that he can get some without you showing up on his family’s doorstep is a plus. Don’t be a sucker — just wait until he’s actually divorced. But I suggest finding someone else before you end up just like his wife — cheated on. Too many women sell themselves short by settling for a man with an attractive exterior.
Has your once chilled-out boyfriend suddenly become incredibly
protective and secretive when it comes to his phone? Never a good sign, especially if you aren’t the clingy or possessive type of guy. She calls when she pleases and dates are always made according to her convenience, which by the way are few and far in between. She calls you up most probably when she has nobody better to hang out with, or if one of her other guys stands her up at the last moment. Many may feel alone or at a loss when it comes to dealing with these challenges. Polyamory is not necessarily superior to monogamy — it works for some people and it doesn’t work for others.
If he’s ready to go steady with you, he should understand that meeting friends and attending social events together is essential because these people matter to both of you. You can be sure that you’re the only girl he’s talking to if his phone doesn’t blow up whenever you’re together. When guys are talking to multiple girls and he’s hiding it from you, he’ll most likely be Raya new nervous about using your name because he might slip up. If he’s talking to other girls, his extra time will be split between you and someone else. Because he’s seeing someone else, he’s also more likely to disappear because she needs his attention too. Unless you’ve talked about dating exclusively, you can’t really get angry if you do find out that he’s dating other girls.
Doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you or her, just means you both look for different things. When I was hit with the “can we be friends line” I personally always declined. What is the point when all they are trying to do is be cordial and save face so you can talk possibly once in two years?
Related to the other points, if he’s texting her on his biggest days, it means something. It’s no secret that men are competitive about the women they love. It’s no different when a married man falls in love with another woman.
